(Note: The first number provides each entry’s approximate relationship to Boyfriend Line. For example, I was frequenting the Machine Shop sometime after I’d been with Dons numbers 18 and 19, and I was frequenting Lick It! around the time I was with Tom number 31. All numbers are estimated.)
| # on BF Line | Venue | # of Visits | # of Partners |
| 20 | Bijou Theater Chicago | 1 | 0 |
| 20 | Machine Shop Bookstore Chicago | 2 | 2 |
| 20 | Man’s Country Chicago | 5 | 5-10 |
| 21 | Unicorn Chicago | 4 | 5-10 |
| 21 | Ram Bookstore Chicago | 2 | 2 |
| 21 | Man’s World North Chicago | 1 | 1 |
| 23 | Gaiety Theatre New York | 3 | 3 |
| 26 | Christopher Street Bookstore NY | 2 | 5-10 |
| 26 | Adonis Theatre New York | 1 | 1 |
| 31 | The Balcony at the Saint New York | 1 | 1 |
| 31 | J’s New York | 5 | 5-10 |
| 31 | Lick It at Limelight New York | 2 | 4 |
| 45 | Exile Los Angeles | 1 | 3 |
| 48 | Beach in Pisa | 1 | 2 |
| 48 | Bathhouse Florence | 1 | 2 |
| 49 | Park in Amsterdam | 1 | 1 |
| 49 | Cock Ring Amsterdam | 3 | 3 |
| 50 | Bathhouse Copenhagen | 1 | 5 |
| 52 | Eros | 20-25 | 50-100 |
| 53 | Blow Buddies | 10-15 | 30-50 |
| 53 | Buster’s | 10 | 20-35 |
| 53 | Land’s End | 20 | 10-15 |
| 53 | Night Gallery | 3 | 10-15 |
| 54 | Trouble | 3 | 5-10 |
| 63 | 1808 Club | 10 | 20-35 |
| 67 | Apollo Sauna Berlin | 1 | 3 |
| 68 | The Spike Berlin | 1 | 1 |
| 69 | Queen of Heaven Party | 1 | 3 |
| 70 | Tuesdays Suck | 1 | 5 |
| 72 | Mykonos | 1 | 1 |
| 72 | Univers Gym | 10 | 20 |
| 72 | King | 2 | 3 |
| 72 | Key West | 1 | 2 |
| 72 | IDM | 5 | 10 |
| 72 | Banque Club | 2 | 5 |
| 73 | Sauna Frankfurt | 1 | 1 |
| 73 | Sauna Stuttgart | 1 | 1 |
| 74 | Sauna Marseilles | 1 | 2 |
| 75 | Sauna Toulouse | 1 | 3 |
| 75 | Hell NY | 1 | 3 |
| 76 | Unicorn Chicago | 2 | 8 |
| 76 | Sauna Indianapolis | 1 | 1 |
| 77 | Le London | 1 | 3 |
| 77 | QG | 1 | 3 |
| 78 | Mandala | 1 | 1 |
Don Bapst 